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When you find your true love, one tends to generally jump in and give their all only to find out later that it is not what they have expected. It is not uncommon that you find that you and your partner pass the honeymoon period and start annoying each other. Of course, we are only human and we tend to do things that might bother others and maybe even annoy our life partner. That isn't truly the problem. The problem is that we as humans tend to only expect good things out of people and thus only accept their good traits completely rejecting the flaws. In the process, we end up not only hurting others but also ourselves by making it harder for the relationship to sustain. So what is the solution? 1. Talk to each other : communication is of course the key. Keep an open mind and also allow your partner to talk. Make a safe place for both of you to talk without judgment. 2. Accept without condition : what most people do is they only accept their friends and families for all t...